Jamie Wright is the author of the popular blog: theveryworstmissionary.com The following is a post of hers from December 6th, 2012.
Despite the fact that I have made my failings at being a missionary quite clear, younger folks still ask me for advice pretty often. It’s like they go, “I have questions about being a missionary. Hmmm… I know! I’ll ask the very worst one!” …. Ooookaay.
So here’s the Very Worst Missionary’s Very Best Advice for Missionarying:
Are you ready for it?
Get a job!
Then? Work the hell out of that job for three years.
Honestly, this is the best advice I can give you.
I know. So disappointing.
But here’s why:
A “real job” – yes, that’s what people in ministry call work outside of the church. Scary! – anyway, a real job will teach you things you’ll need to know in the mission field. Important stuff, like work ethic, sustainability, productivity, and value.
A real job can expose you to real conflict management (and not the lame “Christian” kind they’ll teach in missionary training. Honestly. Our track record at dealing with conflict is pretty horrible).
A real job will teach you to live on a real budget. Because if you say to your real boss, “Hey, can I have some more money for a new car this week?” They’ll say “Um…No.” And then you’ll have to save your money, like a normal person, and buy the car later. Or not buy the car. … I know. It’s cRaZy!
A real job will help you learn not to be an entitled, self-righteous bunghole. Because if you act like that at a real job, they will kick your ass to the curb.
A real job will help you understand time management. Because, your real schedule will not likely allow you to spend three hours every Friday afternoon with your friends or your kids, – even if you call it “discipleship” on Facebook. Actually, that reminds me, your real job won’t let you call any time you spend on Facebook “work”. Not “support development”, not “communication”, not “team building”… Nope. No matter how you say it, Real Job does not approve.
A real job will allow you to support a missionary. Yeah. You should know how that feels.
But, most important?… A real job is a real mission field. So learn some freakin’ respect.
And the other thing I tell people is this (and it’s a doozie!):
Understand the difference between wanderlust and
wanting to be a missionary.
You can read this article on Jamie Wright’s website by clicking here.